cannot connect bluetooth headset

[koolrud]

Please help i have searched high and low, and all around the internet
i have a tmobile wing flashed with ASerg.12.WM61E.WWE
And my hands free headset is a motorola H500

I can get the phone and the headset to pair but i cant the headset to work.
If i press the button on the headset i get nothing
and if i call somebody via the phone and press menu, i dont even get the option to send to hands free. but the devices are paired according to the bluetooth manager.

any help would be appreciated

[fzzyrn]

try connecting using HTC btquicklink
that actually works for me when the usual way does not.