Yep its 2011 nissan altima having bose audio system. So I believe I am out of luck. Basically you select a car on basis of several other factors. Phone connectivity wouldve been the last thing I would notice and in those days I was connecting iphone 4 without a problem.
Its more of a problem of phone manufacturer to make sure that it is considered as a usb music player when connected to a device.
That Bluetooth kit you ordered looks awesome though! Good luck with it.
Now if only manufacturers would start putting Qi charging areas in cars, that is an idea I could get behind!