I like Textra -- but my daily driver is still Evolve SMS, which has had Material Design for a bit now -- if you're a paid user and have access to custom themes, you can access the material design UI via the hidden settings. This works really well with the numerous excellent Material Design themes (from Ryan Borden and others) available from Google Play.
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