Default [Q] SMS Notification

Hey everyone,

A few days ago I had to restore my phone and I wanted to get my original SMS notifications settings back but I couldn't figure out how to...

I want:

-stock SMS notification on notification bar
-custom vibration pattern
-reminders with custom vibration pattern and custom time interval/number of reminders
-no 3rd party notification on notification bar

I was using handcent and stock, and it was working fine.

Now, I either have no vibration/notification from handcent, or vibrate with the notification in the notification bar...really annoying....

I tried using some apps like SMS alert, SMS notifier, and they couldn't serve the above.

Thanks in advance.
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