GOT IT!!!! After RUUing back and installing the stock rooted ROM, I got it on the first try.....donation made to Juopunutbear, and big thanks to all for the help.
Finally got it, don't know how exactly but I started to loose it a little, stopped rebooting the device and just kept running ControlBear then going through the FAQ again ran this code, didn't work, ran ControlBear, ran the code again, then ran ControlBear and it told me I was S-off, looked at the screen and, yeah, s-off
Code:
fastboot oem rebootRUU
fastboot flash zip jb_hboot.zip
fastboot reboot
wow
the most involved rooting/s-off procedure I've ever done