i will try that! i'll edit this post and let you know if it was successful...
Edit. i went ahead and pushed the android policy.jar from Blazer into Framework and volume skip now works and all seems to be ok! i did notice that my honeycomb lockscreen i changed in 'Lockscreen Settings' reverted back to the original e4gt lockscreen (even though i have Honeycomb checked in the settings) not a big deal at all. The power menu is all messed up and has some weird options too. im gonna nand and flash calkulins hack and see if that works better but THANKYOU! You have been a great help and made my night! -what academy awards!? LOL
EDIT2: yea.. flashing AND pushing that file does some weird things to the theme so i might have to nand back. i mean i can live with them but the power menu is really messed up when i change that jar file. all is not lost. thanks dazed