Okay, so I got a multiplicity of cables for extensions and whatnot...
For those of you ahving problems, it could be your cables, I had a few dude, specifically the micro-HDMI F to micro-HDMI M extension. Although it's actually the nicest looking w/ gold plated contacts that I bought from a stateside seller, this POS doesn't connect well. Appears that the PCB is too thin and not making all the contacts once plugged in.
In addition, I had to dremel away parts of the adapters to compensate for the curvature in the lapdock so the connections would be snug.
Anyways, I also confirmed that the lapdock does NOT memorize sound settings, ONLY screen brightness.
I set the screen to dim and sound to off w/ my atrix plugged in
plugged in PS3, screen dim, sound maxed
Set screen to max, sound to minimum (right above off) w/ atrix
plugged in PS3, screen dim, sound maxed
Set screen to max bright, sound medium
plugged in PS3, screen maxed, sound maxed
So, the only way, as it seems, is to disable the sound on your PS3 or xbox (change output to optical only, thereby disabling sound from HDMI) or blow out your lapdock speakers
If only there was a manual mechanical sound control knob, this thing would be perfect.
So I took off the cover for the USB/PWR PCB (remove 3 screws on the bottom, 2 of which are under the rubber feet) and noticed that the tiny speakers plug into the PCB via a nice plastic connector that can easily be unplugged. There's also some space in the channel in front of where the phone goes. So.... I'm thinking I can reroute the speaker wires to a switch, and then tapping a small hole and attaching a 1/8" headphone jack and possibly a volume control to it. Honestly though, I probably won't get the time to do this. :-( But is anyone wants to try, it would be the ultimate portable game system screen!