Htc desire s cant connect to pc

Hi people,
I got problem that cant be solved, have no idea :-/ I installed DESIRE XS Version 1.1custom rom ..
Since then, i done back up, flash everything , ready to install other custom rom, went in fastboot and got stuck .. there isnt such a thing fastboot usb .. obv i was going to change the rom on the same pc i used last time .. my drivers do not recodnise my phone .. before i hear some silly things such as :

1. not every usb cable is data cable .. fine , its not that
2. yes my memory card is working properly
3. yes i can and check and tick and untick thousand times "ask me" before and or after connection ..
4. i got all drivers, installed ...
5. its not my FRONT case USB ports .. they are all working
6. tried the phone on different computers .. still only charging ..
7. checked all development options, every single bit ... no luck
8. my phone usb port its fine .. there isnt the problem
9. i did try to connect other phones on my pc such as nokia and samsung .. with same data cable and they r recognised

Any idea people ? Phone is only charging and thats all ...

SimonTS said:

Why did you open an identical thread here and in the Q&A forum?

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sorry mate, just dont know how to delete it .. if someone can, do it , thanks