Question [Q] Radar not being seen by Mobile Device Center

I have a radar stuck in demo mode, need to flash the official tmobile us rom. I have the USB drivers installed and the device manager shows that they are installed properly, but windows mobile device center doesn't see hte phone, whether its in normal mode, or bootloader mode.

I think I need mobile device center to see the phone, because RUU says activesync is necessary, and it aso gives me an error when I try to install the proper rom, that it can't find the device properly.

Any tips? Help is appreciated, I would even tip someone $5 paypal if you can give me the info needed to sucessful flash the rom. (I was trying to flash by running the Omega European RUU.exe, then replacing it with the t-mobile .nbf before installing in the temp files)

Thanks!