Question HTC rom

ok so this is my first post and im alittle new lol, so i have a HTC wildfire s and im getting fed up with the old rom now and im going to try and update the rom lol if dont have to be jelly bean could be ICS if you know of a rom that runs better hoping i dont brick my phone lol so i just looking for advice really like what is the best rom to put on my phone and any guide to doing this please sorry if im posting in the wrong place and i dont want to upgrade my handset really as i love my phone so big thanks for any help