Still not 100% good :) but better!
Well, I dunno if I should just have edited my old, but anyways..
I saved my theme, worked fine, I thought it would help to not be so hasty in unlocking my rebooted phone. But it didn't.
At least with this I could restore my old extra widgets, except, it seems, when a widget needs to set some settings before it is shown correctly, even exporting the theme doesn't work for that particular widget. So my flashlight widget (in which I needed to choose an icon for the light) was invisible, when I unlocked widgets I could find it though, but couldnt get to its settings. And my gtasks widget which needed an account was just a white useless blob, that I needed to remove and then reinsert.