So I have been having some trouble getting exactly the experience I wanted.
Turns out that either the VNC client apps didn't support my nordic keyboard layout properly, or it did not support meta keys, or it did not support the altGr key.
I've been through 20+ clients testing this, until I finally decided to try out Jump Desktop, it is a paid app, but everything just works.
This post is written from my fedora20 KVM vm accessed through Jump Desktop VNC.
I can write æøå, @ with AltGr+2 etc. so far everything just works.
Slight latency compared to desktop VNC, but for coding/compiling and browsing it is no problem at all.
Now I just have to get my hands on a micro hdmi adapter so I can try an external monitor, but so far I am very pleased with my TF701T
Solid substitute for my old laptop for my needs, AND I can just pop the screen off and I have a brilliant android tablet