I thought I would let everyone know the end of the story. My wife's MMS works now both sending and receiving. Now for the other shoe. I have no idea why after over 30 days without it. The only thing I can think is that it was something on Straight Talks end. We never found any magic Apn settings just using the ones they originally gave except now it works...I can only assume we made enough noise after a month of calls that somebody got there head out of you know where and fixed it. I'm sorry I can't post any revelations here because I know others are in that boat, but that's what happened.
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