Also if you've ever signed into your phone with your Google account (which you must have done to use it properly) then there's absolutely no way that your contacts aren't backed up onto your account unless you've deliberately disabled this option, in which case more fool you.
I have no idea how to fix your SIM card problem (no, not ROM problem) but please stop posting to every single different ROM thread as it's clearly not a problem with any of the ROMs (other members have even managed to import SIM contacts from the ROMs you complain about). Just open a thread in the Q&A section so we can sort out your problem AWAY from "development", please. The only thing I can think of is that there are in fact no contacts on your SIM else it's just a compatibility issue with your SIM. If you want to discuss this, don't reply to this as I won't reply back. Open a new thread in the Q&A section and quote me there. Thank you.