What is your actual problem. You've said what you've tried but not whats happening. I assume you mean the vibration/haptic feedback isnt working. And if you have tried multiple roms then all i could suggest is a full ODIN to stock otherwise its a hardware problem. And if you replaced the motor already then its probobly deeper
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