Default [Q] Multiple Numbers in Contacts/Group Selection

The title is vauge, but in the default messaging application.when sending a group text, and there is a group already set up, but some of the contacts have multiple numbers, how do you select the correct number? Right now, if I choose my little league group for example, it will select everyone in the group, but several contacts in that group have home, cell and work contacts, and the application is not always selecting the correct contact., I know I am doing something wrong here, but I'm not certain how I select the right contact number.

TIA.
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