My phone is finally back to normal with ICS 4.0.4,
THANK YOU ALL
first, option 4 to repartition the phone
second, option 7 to install the cp and ap files.
am working on a comprehensive steps so i put here for people who are having same issue
I have a new, issue,
The wifi connected only once, since then
i turn it on and it does not connect again, i notice that it auto turns off in less than 5 second,