I have been looking at a LOT of other ROMs (as that is what seemed to be only solution to this issue) and every JB ROM (AOKP, CM, even the one attempt at Sense) have at least one major bug (i.e., the attempt at sense has a non-working camera, others are plagued with reboots or pictures/music disappearing, etc), but the bug list on the 4.0 rom is FAR longer than the bug lists on these other very ambitious ROMs, so I have avoided it.
I suspect the answer is either in Nils' surprise project, or buying a HTC One at the end of the summer when it comes out.