Amazing theme but biggest mistake was removing the stock MMS.apk, The ICS one you added from the market has a dependency from the original Mms.apk, the ICS is kinda **** one as it leeches off the stock messenger app with no stand alone, which means, you can send, but you won't get any incoming messages, I found it strange as to why I didn't get a notification or why my phone was silent for the last 2 days, only today I realized I don't have incoming messages, That would explain the angry girlfriend
You need to replace in system/app the stock Mms.apk
Then you need to install ICS Messenger (You can extract it from the zip theme file, and install it as a regular app) as this one is ad free
You are then required to disable Message notifications in the stock Messaging settings, and then you need to change the ICS one to ENABLE Vibration and select an individual ringtone, as it doesn't apply it via the Settings version.
Such a hassle for an app, Plus the updated one has Ads now, and they're getting pubstomped about it, Low resolution icons, bad support, its now from 5* to 3*
I would give this theme a 4* only because now I have to deal with the angry woman.