You have a memory issue in the pc. The blue sceen is occuring due to page fault errors. Take out a stick of memory,reconnect phone to pc and see if it craahes with other memory left in unit. If not you should be able to proceed. If it does crash,put back the memory you took out and remove other memory sticks and proceed again..replacing and removing memory until it doesnt crash.. then you can connect to pc and isolate memory that has went bad or is about to. Also be sure you are using the correct recovery for your device. Primou for gsm. Primic for cdma.
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You need to wipe data,cache,dalvik-cache and system in recovery,then flash your rom,then reboot to bootloader-usb fastboot,then flash the correct boot.img for the rom. You're almost there..keep trying.