Okey guys, i just had a clear moment in my head and realised i used touchcontrol before with stock rom.
this is how i manage to use touchcontrol now is: oke dont judge me over this option but i used the wugfresh method only the customrecovery + boot option.
be sure you have the adb driver on your xp, i also installed the pda.net drivers for a sec only to secure that it would connect with wugfreshtoolkit.
i also reset the computer before connecting.
it automaticly gets the custom recovery, and installed it parantly i wasnt installed good on my foon.
after that i opened touch control and choosed the button one of the list to download. it will reset your foon install the kernel and reboot back to normal.
now slide to unlock en slide to sleep is working again whoepieeee
thankss guys and sorry for my bad english.
greets from holland
nexus 4 life
Phone history: Qtek2020, HTC Wizard, HTC Universal, HTC P3450, HTC sensation
Running now LG Nexus 4 16gb
stock android 4.3