I had the Note II. My wife really wanted the bigger screen and better battery life. I figured we would get a GS 4 with her upgrade (and I would use it), give her my Note II, and if she didn't like the Note II she could have the GS4. I was worried it would be too big for her. She hasn't had any issues, or complaints about the size. Personally, I like the S4 better. She really likes not being tethered to a charger all day. I think that is the biggest thing she likes. Haven't seen her use the S pen at all.
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