Originally Posted by r0mmel

aww , not yet, thats what im thinking is the problem... ill check that out tonight after work.

OMG THANKS!!!! that was the problem my proximity sensor. oh man im so happy!!
this thread helped me fix the problem
http://forum.xda-developers.com/show....php?t=1431935

thanks guys! now just wondering if its worth fixing the proximity sensor or just let it be.. hmm

That's completely up to you. You can probably get a new phone on contract for cheaper than getting that sensor replaced.