Ya, I understand where your coming from. Have you tried looking for the odin files elsewhere? I thing there is a website called samfirwares or something like that, I'll try to find it. Its a funky site to navigate through though.
Updated to 3.2 tonight using Kies. Problems initially with Kies connecting to Tab. Clicked on diagnose connection problem in Kies and it reinstalled USB drivers. Prompted to reboot. Once complete, Kies connected to Tab. I was then prompted that there was a firmware update. I installed with no issues. Make sure you are running most recent version of Kies.
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