Default 3 music application, source of music

the 3 music application is ok but mixed in with the songs , artists etc is the samsung message tones, alerts etc in one big samsung file with a samsung image.

is there a way to just get rid of it in this location and where exactly do i put my music anyway to get them to play in 3? which folder frm sd card or phone DCIM? music? media or what? ,,sounds/?

isn't there a better application for music with the same style widget but perhaps rating feature and order by ratings a bit like windows media player on an old style windows device. that would be cool.

might be a case of running two application at the same time?

how have peeps done this?