Question HELP??? - XT9 alternatives, DB wipe, or Autocorrect solution?

All -

I just posted this in another thread as well but did want to create as a new thread perhaps for those that have somehow won this battle?

I am just moving from PPC/WM6 to SmartPhone/WM6 and this is so painful for me - the AutoCorrect options and some of the back-doors to adding items to that list is so wonderful --

example:
WM (space) -- WindowsMobile
thxm (space) -- Thanks Much!
reg (space) -- Regards!
u -- you
r -- are

But minus so many other words - choices - and thinking from the app.

I have searched for 2 days on the Net and saw some of the old apps that worked with this T9 DB --- I am "thinking" if I can completely wipe the XT9 DB and build it just with my words I may be able to survive.... because the list will just have the words I want.

I am willing to pay for this - essentially KAI AutoCorrect and BB AutoText do this and did not know I would lose this with WM/SmartPhone and wish I had the same flavor as WM/PPC.

If there is a sleeper app out there I have not seen I would be soooo grateful but just can't find one - or one that will do this with WM6/Smartphone.

Thanks so much for anything here --- I think if I could WIPE those DB's I would be ok?

Thanks ---