Although not very helpful. Just my experience and observation, could be nothing. I tried all the Roms for my HD2, the Only one I have NOT had a issue with SOD is Darkstone. Not once... the one that was close was "dan" rom. It booted, after the first 2 minutes I had a call, finished the call and it never woke up. Pulled the battery, and figured I would delay the time before the next SOD so I could finish some app downloads. I changed the time out to 2 minutes and shut the lock sound off. After that it woke up everytime. I uninstalled because of other reasons... Like I said, may be nothing but coincidence, but I have noticed a serious delay with the lock sound even on Darkstone. I am happy as could be with it though. Lock sound is off.
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