Thanks for the info links but I had already tried some of those suggestions in your list, while others were not relevant to me. However in the thread I did notice a lot of people mentioning they had a problem of the wifi connecting and dis-connecting randomly or would not re-connect to the wifi network after coming out of sleep. Neither of these are my problems.
As well many people mentioned router problems. My home and work network are both configured for 802.11-g connections. At cybercafes I don't know, but I'm guessing they are probably all using 802.11-b/g. As my Wifi does not seem to be turning on correctly, I pretty much eliminated that as being a source of my problem or any router issue in general as the problem seems to occur randomly. As I mentioned in my previous post, sometimes I can turn my wifi on without issue for days on end, other times, I have to spend 20 minutes or so fighting with it to turn on. That's "turn on my wifi" and not "connect to a wifi network". Once the wifi is turned on, connecting to a network has never been a problem.
Your problem seems to have been your phone was unable to connect wirelessly to a router, while mine is quite the opposite. My wifi simply does not turn on at all and after about 5 minutes of saying "Turning on wifi..." displays "Error" where it should say what network it is connected to.
If I am able to to turn on my wifi, I never have a problem connecting to a network. My phone can go to sleep wake up and re-connect without a problem, any number of times. Once my wifi is on and connected to a network I never lose connection. Even when I am at work, I can be connected to one wifi network, go to another part of the building and I would re-connect automatically to another wifi network. I can bounce between wireless networks all day without ever having a problem.
Others mentioned GPS and Location tracking as a potential source of problems. My GPS is never activated or anything that has to do with location finding and tracking. Even when it is activated, on the rare occasion I do use the GPS, I don't recall if I had any problems connecting to a wifi network.
I know that once my wifi does not turn on, on the first try (home, office, cybercafe, etc.), it takes multiple attempts for it to do so. I am beginning to think there is some kind of bug in the wifi driver and will just have to suffer with it until Samsung wakes up and fixes the problem.
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You gave me a good chuckle as to why you had to edit your post.