you both from india? i think everyone in india will get updates at the same time
i too dont know why you are not getting updates.. but i will try to figure out by knowing what is difference between your phone and mine..
1) have you enabled developer options ?? i had them enabled ..
2) i have signed in to motorola ID ( in settings -> personal > motorola ID )
3) got the update after 12 hours, where every one here claimed they got update.. ( i got the notification about software update as soon as i ON my wifi )
did you have all these as i have?
if yes, then try another thing.. install MOTOROLA DEVICE MANAGER, and connect your phone to your PC and try looking for any software updates..
NOTE : i am kind of getting a feeling that - software updates are now no longer active, they must be downloaded on that time only !!