I was fairly disappointed by the amount of gingerbread styling left over using apps that havent been designed to use the new holo theme.
I have taken it upon myself to remove the default gingerbread styling and move to the holo resources.
This fix is all xml and uses no additional images.
To incorporate I believe you can just move over the styles.xml to framework-res.apk/values/styles.xml
Anyone using this theme please provide feedback since there may be buggy or incorrectly themed instances throughout.
You can use this with themes from the aokp theme chooser