"We have found the fix! go to the PEOPLE(contact list) app. Go to the Online Directories (globe) tab. Hit Facebook. You will be asked to log in to your Facebook account. Once logged in, it will show all of you contacts on your Facebook account. Go back to the full list of your contacts on the phone and try and sync."
The problem is, we don't have the Online Directories tab in your ROM. The only place I think I saw it was in the Fresh 2.1 ROM (I think I remember seeing a colored globe icon on that ROM in the people app). I know it's not a huge deal, but it would be nice if it worked properly.