@Spoochie , yes you're right if the app settings not backed up then after activating app sharing it'll not have your previously made settings, this to some point includes whatsapp data..this is because the app after being shared it's using a new sharable data folder location that'll also be accessible from rest of secondary ROMS.
& yes as well, after you've activated the app sharing from primary, you've got to install the same app in the secondary ROM.
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Workaround for keeping data/settings of shared app
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Backup the data+ settings of any app you're planning to share (whatsapp or launcher, whatever it be: using TB, 3C Toolbox pro etc) then after you've backed up AND after rebooting , your app will be using a new sharable data folder location, then restore the data+settings( only data+settings plz) you've backed up from above,
Then now your shared app it's having configuration as you desire.
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Then the rest it's much easier, just go to secondary rom and INSTALL the apk you've activated for sharing from primary, reboot and your app will be successfully synced.
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This I believe it's a much more easier approach compared to other manual alternatives!
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Try this and feed back, it works for me greatly and it'll work for you too!
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