you can get the craddle here: mobilefun.co.uk/htc-incredible-s-dual-desktop-sync-and-charge-cradle-p29105.htm
I'm surprised how you couldn't find this. I mean, seriously, why eBay? This company is top-notch for mobile accessories and their customer service is very satisfying.
I got this one and it is actually the Kidigi one. It does say Kidigi on the box, but not the cradle (which is very much to my preference, I like it this way better) Also, everything works fine and I'm satisfied with it. LED's work ok. Blue led on the left means that the craddle is connected, and right one is red when battery is charging, otherwise it's green.
The AC plug that was provided was UK-type, but that's not a problem for me, since I have it connected to my PC all the time anyway, and you could still buy a converter for that if you needed it...
Oh and btw, a reply to the post above:
I got only one wire and it said "data only", but that doesn't matter really, I use it for bot charging and data without problems. Also works fine with original HTC wire that was supplied with the phone. If length is a problem for you sir, maybe you should get an usb extension cord.
The only downside to this cradle is that you can't reach the volume buttons while it's sitted. I don't really care about the headplugs. But you can still do that software-ish. It could also be good to use a launcher that supports landscape mode, if you use your phone a lot while it's in the cradle.
just go to the online store section of their site.