more specifically, the screen lit up and then for about 10 seconds i saw the phone icon in the status bar but no ringtone or option to answer the call (most likely because i had a pattern and the phone was lagging trying to bypass it)
and when i finally did get the incoming phone call screen and ringtone, it lasted for 5 seconds and the touchscreen didn't work, making me miss the call.
so i go to open the phone app and i waited for about 10-15 seconds for it to load.
yeah i'm not going to be using AOKP anymore. CM9 for me from here on out.