Imagine CM6 + sense, huh? That would be awesome.
For now, if you want sense, you're gonna have to stick with Eclair.
I personally recommend slidemr v4 or v5 if you want stock launcher (kind of irrelevant now that we have ADW theme for slide's stock launcher).
Like sandpaperback here, I had slidemr v4 for a while before switching to Eugene's CM6. Never had any problem with it.