I'm going to say the same as I said to KWBR when he was about to pull out, don't be a wuss by doing the easy thing by pulling the rom.
All this coming and going from xda by members just serves to add to the perceived clique groupings and us v them attitude which re-inforces the feeling that it is no longer a community of sharing, camaraderie and goodwill.
it's becoming htcpedia vs xda and it shouldnt be like that. the two should compliment eachother...but you can see how it might look less than friendly with two broadly similar sites. It almost looks adverserial.
so take heart that your rom was the first I ever saw. come back when you can and the community should welcome you. you do good work and I'm glad it continues. I personally think pulling it does nothing for community cohesiveness.
But if youve had enough, then that's ok.