Sounds similar to me. Well I went down to the local library, found the programming section and found a good Java guide. Programming with Java in 24 Hours is what I found, bit out of date, but the concepts are still there. Work through it as your own pace (24 hours my ass, learning takes longer than that) and by the end you will have an understanding of Java.
Then read through all of those links Cyanogen posted. Things will make a heck of a lot more sense this way. Then just keep playing around with code, trying to write stuff here and there. Use Java often, it will help you to learn it better.
Hope that helps.
I'm 14 btw
Hey can you some how relay an GOOD books that you find? I tried learning this stuff too.... and btw, you're lucky having an android at 14, im 17 and so happy that I have a captivate! but please, PLEASE PLEASEHL help! Thanks