or wait.this is weird why the updates ain't coming through what I did was turn my devices wifi off overnight and the next morning I put it on and the update came through they can't of bared the IP cause people are still getting the 3.1 update ota so its working OK the only thing I can think of is do a hard reset if it don't come through.
someone at HTC once said they have 'slots' when the slots are full you wait till the next 'day'... a bit like google+
So probably all the 3.2 slots are full for the moment but in a few hours maybe they'll open up again