Well, I finally figured this out thanks to doing a bunch of reading on this thread and others, and thanks to helpful hinters here and elsewhere.
I read
this thread and changed my band selection to ALL GSM, it seems that the phone will only accept one entry. Dicking with the LTE band selection undid the GSM preference.
"Follow the rest of the directions from the above link, setting all the settings to what is stated. EXCEPT where he says to set all the preferences to WCDMA ALL, GSM ALL and LTE ALL. When I selected one, however, an asterisk appeared after my selection leading me to believe that you can only select one of these and so I set mine to GSM ALL and left the others alone. This worked for me, so I thought I'd mention it."
I've also tried selecting LTE/GSM Mode only, as well as selecting Band 2/1900 to try to get LTE, and played with switching the APN from epc.tmobile.com to fast.tmobile.com. I've managed to receive 3G on a few occasions, but I can't determine the criteria for why it works sometimes. Mostly, I seem to receive 2G Edge, signified by the capital "E".
ANyway, I'm happy to have service (even if it's slow). I'm upgrading to the G4 when it comes out. Thanks to all the help on this thread!