Ok. For those who also wants to control your desire s
simple manual how to do this )))
1) You have to install ROM without Carrier IQ (i am use CM ROm)
2) Install DroidWall (
http://code.google.com/p/droidwall/)
3) Delete all gapps. If you wants to use Market you can use Blackmart or Applanet
If you realy wants to use google market. you have to download *.zip package with Google apps and delete *.apk from system/app but don't touch Vending.apk MarketUpdater.apk and GoogleServiseFramework.apk
4)Switch off Wireless Location
5)Install LBE Privacy Guard.
6) Sync you Desire S with PC
download android-sync software
http://www.android-sync.com/ and install it. This software will create local database for calendar and contacts.
After first sync you can delete this software because it expensive and unuseful.
I am advice to install MyPhoneExplore instead. It's free and have more flexible settings.
So you will get more less secure phone with wireless PC sync (i am use Bluetooth)