That was actually discussed a few pages back (couple weeks ago?). I don't remember exactly which button. If you click on the "problems" button that pops up, then "preferences" button, I think the menu button opens up. But, that was not the "answer" to fix the menu button not appearing.
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Go into settings> Rom control> hardware buttons> home button> then assign long press to it. See if that opens it up to the menu?
Might be other ways to open it, too? Those are the two that were discussed, I think.