Following up on this. I was curious why it wasn't detecting my SIM card correctly but I suspected not having Gapps installed unfortunately might be the issue. Sure enough, after wiping and flashing the 2021-12-16 LineageOS image and MindTheGapps it connected fine including 5G.
Because I really don't want Google services installed, I wiped and flashed LineageOS for microG recovery and image hoping it would work. I'm happy to report my SIM has been working for the last 6 days with no issues. I also flashed Magisk and installed a great
Gcam mod and everything is working great.
Are other people without Gapps or microG having the same SIM detection issue? I didn't think it would be needed, but perhaps it's just a weird AT&T thing?