I'm still trying to get dialer theme, I'm in contact with someone who has created one! Shouldn't be long now!
I don't quite get what you are trying to ask/say..? If you follow the instructions in my first post you should have no problems.
In fact I want to know what changes the apk on messages? It changes the theme given for the appearance of "sense 4" and it installs the apk "message 4 Sense"??